It's time to hit below the belt again and make you really think. How are you at self-evaluation? If you are like me, you probably think everyone else should evaluate themselves. I don't really have any deficiencies myself...it's just a long list of all the things I'm great at. Does that sound familiar?
Take a moment and forget about everyone else. Think about you and only you. Can you be brutally honest with yourself? Can you really see the areas you need to improve? Can you really understand your strengths? Do you even want to know your strengths and weaknesses?
Now, how about going one step further. How about approaching a colleague or close friend, or maybe your boss or someone that reports to you. Can you ask them to give you a true evaluation of your strengths and weaknesses? Would they come up with the same list as you came up with? If the list is different, are you fooling yourself? Are you really good at the things you think you are good at? Do you really know and understand your weaknesses?
You could do like me and go to someone that will sugar coat it for you and ask their opinion....I'm going to Todd and Anna (I'm sure they will sugar coat telling me my weaknesses... ha ha) What is important in this, if you do it, is that you don't argue or defend what they tell you. You want someone to tell you the truth and not feel threatened by being honest.
Are you prepared to really understand the areas you need to work on? Do you have the guts to ask someone, who will be direct and straightforward, for their evaluation of you?
Have a great Thursday,
Chris
P.S. Just because you know I'm going to Todd and Anna doesn't mean they want lists of all my weaknesses from you, I'm sure they can make big enough lists themselves.